Curious about the cuckold counterpart? Enter the cuckquean!
Let’s take a look at the women who enjoy being cuckolded by their partners, and what a cuckquean relationship might be like.
What is a Cuckquean?
First of all, a cuckold is a husband whose wife has sex with other men with his knowledge. Sometimes in his presence whilst humiliating him or emasculating him, or maybe not depending on the scenario negotiated.
What we don’t focus on as much is the cuckold counterpart: cuckquean. A woman who is the wife or partner of an adulterous man. In the context of the cuckold lifestyle, it is a role she relishes, enjoying the thrill of her man fucking other women. And sometimes enjoying the aspect of humiliation play as well.
There is always a different perspective and circumstance when alternate genders and power dynamics are introduced. So it’s not always the husband “lending out his hotwife.”
The “cuckquean” is a very rare sexual breed, but one that must be celebrated and explored!
Some wives want to lend their hubby out like a library book, because they have established that possibility, and it won’t affect the marriage. Not everyone can handle that, but just because it’s not your cup of tea doesn’t mean that your neighbors aren’t devouring potfulls of steaming hot cuckery every weekend beneath your nose!
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5 Things to Know about Cuckqueans
Let’s explore a little bit of what the life of a cuckquean might consist of, and see how much you can relate!
1. You never know who makes the decisions.
Patriarchy has (or HAD, thanks to progress) people saying things like “We know who wears the pants in that household!” and such and such. But the idea that it’s always the man making the major decisions in the bedroom and with the sharing of bodies is not the truth whatsoever.
A cuckquean relishes the idea of her man out fucking someone else, or she highly enjoys the idea of granting her husband time with another woman while she watches.
She may decide to have him fuck her friend, or she may decide to slut him out to more than one person at a sex club some wild night. He also may request her permission to experience something that he desires, or something that he wants to show her he can do. And she may oblige him.
You never know who controls the primary power in a cuckquean relationship, and it can shift from situation to situation.
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2. A cuckquean may or may not use chastity toys.
Some cuckqueans are going to be very happy with the idea of using locks, cages, and chastity belts on their partners, and possibly controlling their sexual expression to places they want. There is often a control aspect that comes into play with cuckolds and cuckqueans, and it can easily allow space for toys like cages and strap-ons.
Limiting or extending the cuck’s pleasure is a big part of the relationship, and there are countless ways to do such a thing. Secret control in places like public restaurants or work is legendary.
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3. Cuckolding behavior is open, not hidden.
There are many types of non-monogamous relationships that people can conduct, even if they are married or engaged. But cucking isn’t really associated with the don’t-ask-don’t-tell policy of extramarital affairs, and having mistresses isn’t really aligned with cuckquean actions.
Unless she asks for him to go out and do these things, without her knowing and then possibly asks to learn some details or join in in future affairs to watch or direct the actions of her partner, cuckqueans and cuckolds are most often open with their sexy behavior.
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4. Female-led relationships (FLR) are gaining in popularity.
The cuckquean-cuckold connection is a type of female-led relationship, where patriarchal standards and attitudes are consciously counteracted and deconstructed. Cuckqueans are active participants in deciding what kind of sex life their husbands or partners will experience, and what they will witness visually, experience emotionally, and share personally with their lovers and friends.
FLR connections are powerful and should be promoted more in society, as patriarchy dominates too much of the power exchanges between humans, and does not satisfy nearly enough of us. Cuckqueans help redefine what relationships can be!
Read: 4 Types of Female-Led Relationships
5. Cuckquean relationships can incorporate BDSM and kink.
There are sub-levels to every level, ha ha. Honestly, it’s not just chastity belts that can be used. There are mental, verbal, emotional, DEFINITELY economic, psychological, and the obvious sexual levels to the power subjugation and power exchanges that can be established and shared between a cuckquean and her cuck.
The emotional aspects of a cuckold fetish are to be established according to each one’s appetite for eroticism to show the wife, but other explorations may include impact play, small penis humiliation, and discipline if the cuckquean so desires. Maybe you spank your husband if he doesn’t fuck your lesbian lover right, who knows?
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Cuckqueans are a small percentage of the participants in the vast cornucopia of sexual characters we can become and explore in our lives. If you find yourself cuckqueaning your way through a threesome on a Friday night, I hope you think of me and this article!
Do you fantasize about being with a cuckquean? Please share your desire.
Have fun,
Addi “Malcolm Lovejoy” Stewart
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