Are you on a BDSM budget? Are you looking for DIY sex toy tips?
Homemade sex toys have a long history. Humans are incredibly innovative and if we don’t have what we need, we make it, or we jerry-rig something else to turn it into what we require.
Making homemade sex toys brings a creative solution to a problem—let’s say you need to get fucked, but don’t have a live penis or a dildo on hand.
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Commercial, mass-produced sex toys didn’t exist until relatively recently. But homemade sex toys have existed literally for thousands of years. The need to have homemade sex toys on hand is how companies got the ideas they have.
Dildos designed to sell thousands on Amazon were first carved from bone or antler. Homemade sex toy dildos were also made from dried camel dung, and from leather! We have found such creations dating back thirty thousand years. And apparently, the idea of sticking your dick into a loaf of bread is not new.
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11 Sex Toys You Can Make at Home
1. Homemade Pocket Pussy
This homemade sex toy is absolutely essential. Fleshlight-style pocket pussy toys are perfectly designed, but millions of dudes contributed their innovative jerry-rigging long before the pocket pussy factories were launched.
Guys have used fruits like watermelons or cantaloupes but present various problems of texture, acidity, and bacteria. You don’t want to burn your dick. You can use a condom to make this option more practical, but still, the hard rind in the fruit and the prickly seeds can still be an impediment to perfect pussy texture.
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There are better ways to make this homemade sex toy! The lore says that prison inmates rigged one of the easiest, best ways that guys can now benefit from, using a warm wet towel with soap or Vaseline. Since you have options, skip the soap and Vaseline which can burn or be tough to get off, and use lube.
Another classic is a pair of old socks, one inside another to create a bit of thickness. You can put lots of lube inside the sock and use fantasy to turn into something better!
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2. Homemade Dildos
These homemade sex toys also come in a thousand varieties. Easy and popular home options to use as dildos also include the foods—phallic shaped fruits and veggies, like cucumbers and carrots. But you don’t want food in your vagina, or pesticides. The sugars and bacteria in foods can cause havoc in your pussy. Solve this easily by throwing a condom over the carrot and you’re good to go!
Glass and plastic bottles are dildo standbys when the size and girth are a fit. Obviously be very careful with glass. I would stick with plastic options and always use a condom even after washing the product carefully. Just take a look through the kitchen for spatulas, rolling pins, serving utensils, that have the right kind of handle for penetration.
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3. Homemade Restraints
Most people into BDSM have made bondage restraints at home. This can happen spontaneously when you realize you want to be tied up and are away from your dungeon. It can happen for discretion—having a spanking bench isn’t always possible if you have children. Use what they have on hand to play out their bondage fantasies.
You can use ropes and chains lying around in the garage, but think about hygiene and skin damage, and ways to mitigate them. Some ropes will cause serious and painful rope burns, but it’s easy to add a sheet or towel or wear sleeves or gloves when being tied. Bedsheets work wonders, as do leather belts and silk scarves.
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4. Homemade Bondage Chair
Just about any chair can become a bondage chair, used to restrain someone in a submissive BDSM posture, to blindfold them, or tease or tantalize them, depending on your tastes.
A La-Z-Boy with her legs bent and spread is a beautiful thing. A kitchen chair and rope can spice things up in the kitchen. Always use common sense for BDSM safety. Can she cut herself from too much pressure against a wood chair. Can the wheeling office chair roll in an unsafe way in that position? Otherwise, rigging a homemade bondage chair with restraints you have on hand is easy.
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5. Homemade Sensory Play Toys
Imaginative, sensual lovers enjoy sensory play, and there are lots of homemade sex toys that can deliver a variety of sensations. Sensation play is all about slow sex, so it can be a form of BDSM torture or all about exploring your fetishes in a patient way.
Sensation play can take place during bondage, or it can be simple teasing and touching for vanilla couples. It’s all about using all of the senses and not restricting sex play to the genitals.
Homemade sensation play toys are endless. A music playlist of sexy grooves is something almost everyone has made. Strawberries and whipped cream, drizzled chocolate or maple syrup are fun for foreplay. Experiment with ice cubes, silk lingerie, feathers, cold metal. Play with body paints, bubble bath, warm water pulsing from a showerhead. Use lubes, creams, body oils and lotions.
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6. Homemade Sensory Deprivation
It’s easy to create sensory deprivation at home as part of sensation play or BDSM. Sensory deprivation amps up adrenaline, anticipation, and sensation. It can be part of humiliation fetishes or sadomasochism punishments.
Get creative, and you’ll find lots of ways to play at home. A scarf as a blindfold is an easy classic. Leaving a sub inside a cool empty bathtub is another. Use earmuffs. Close all the windows to drown out sounds. Get naked outside of the bedroom, tied up in a boot closet or garage.
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7. Homemade Gag
Long before commercial gags were available, people were balling up their panties or pantyhose and stuffing them into their partner’s mouth. Or their fingers.
Use a tangerine or small orange. Use a carrot lengthwise. Use a twisted tea towel placed between the teeth.
Always use caution when making this kind of homemade sex toy. Never use duct tape on someone face (or body) as it will damage skin when pulled off, and is not easy to get off in an emergency. Never cover both nose and mouth!
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8. Homemade Nipple Clamps
Did you know that the humble bobby pin pinches to perfection when used on your nipple?
You can use chopsticks to pinch your partner’s nipples, but rigging a pair with some elastics means an easy homemade nipple clamp.
Different kinds of clothespins are a common homemade sex toy when it comes to nipple play. They can be mild or very intense, so test and be sure.
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9. Homemade Impact Play Toys
Beautiful BDSM whips, floggers, and leather paddles are a joy to hold and behold. But homemade sex toys are popular and easy for impact play. The oldest trick in the book is the wooden spoon, with the leather belt and the rubber spatula right behind it.
Use a ping pong paddle for broad strokes. Use the back end of a hairbrush. Use silicone cooking utensils.
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10. Homemade Sex Doll
Making a sex doll at home probably won’t result in the same convincing perfection that the ten-thousand-dollar talking and warming model with a lifelike vagina or cock will have. But it can be fun to try as something different, or to keep you company in between lovers. You might have a doll fetish and want to try a homemade sex doll because the toy store ones are exorbitant.
People have made homemade sex toy dolls with stuffed pillows and pocket pussy arrangements, kind of like a scarecrow but sexier! You can use a pocket pussy or a dildo with a mannequin or other kind of doll. You can rig a hole in a plush toy.
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11. Homemade Vibrators
The first vibrators really were massagers, so any vibrating devices you have for medical purposes can be used as homemade sex toy vibrators. The caveat is that these toys are not usually designed to be used directly against your pussy or cock or inside of you. Nipple play is usually safe. Use common sense!
You might use a dental dam or condom to make a medical massager safe to touch you, or use it through your panties. Those that are made of silicone and are clean might be okay, but don’t penetrate with anything not designed for your pussy or butthole.
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