What Is Ass Worship?
Ass worship is the fine and timeless art of admiration of the gluteus maximus, the hind parts, the backside, the booty, the rear end, la derriere.
In our Western world and in Europe, a basic and perpetual desire to worship breasts and cleavage has consumed much of popular media for ages. But in the Eastern world and places like Africa and South America, there is a nonstop appreciation and worship of the ass over breasts, and for great reasons.
Whether it’s the advanced g-spot pleasure the bottom gets while in doggy sex position, or the power and force that a penetrator can give from behind, or the anal play that can be thrown in for good measure, there are endless reasons why ass worship and play is adored by MANY!
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Even though ass worship can be fraught with all kinds of health and social taboos, there is no reason why, with safe and sanitary practices between partners, that ass worship can’t be a regular part of your sexual repertoire!
Asses are fun to play with, even if it’s not a J. Lo, Cardi B, or Christopher Meloni level booty. Ain’t no reason why you can’t have fun still! Everyone has a butthole, plus it’s not just the ass, it’s the thighs, the hips, the lower back, the stomach, the waist, the belly button, and even the knees that can all be activated by ass worship action.
Asses can be treated roughly, for the most part, which allows a wide variety of options. Ass worship can range from the most gentle and kind caressing and care to the most aggressive and intense impact play with intentions to bruise and leave marks. Worship comes in a variety of forms!
Read: Impact Play Tips, Tools, and Safety
Make sure you have CRYSTAL CLEAR boundaries in regards to every level of ass worship you would like, especially if it includes BDSM. Now, let’s get into the nitty gritty details of how you can love your partner’s ass.
7 Ass Worship Ideas
1. Admire and Compliment
Words of affirmation are something most of us like to receive. Those who love this body part see beautiful behinds damn near every day in the summertime when they walk down the street, whether it be in tight jeans, yoga pants, or biker shorts.
You can’t just compliment every hot ass you see, but you can wax poetic and gush positive praise on your lover’s ass. Tell them how much you like its curve, its plump form, its musculature, tautness. Worship that ass through compliments until you can’t anymore, until you just have to bite, slap, kiss it, or something!
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2. Ass Massage
Ass worship can take the form of an erotic massage, and lord knows it’s something that most of us need more than anyone cares to admit, seeing as how many of us spend our days sitting on our rump.
Asses can be kneaded, pinched with fingers, pounded with fists, grinded with palms, beaten like ground beef with knuckles and elbow edges, and of course just rubbed and squeezed with basic massage techniques and oils. Worship an ass through massage as long as your lover allows—soft and gentle, hard and rough.
Read: 5 Kinky Massage Ideas and Techniques
3. Rimming
Here we go, zooming right into the deep end, pun intended! Rimming is essentially licking around an asshole with one’s tongue. You may have a desire to rim but have trouble finding a willing partner because rimming is high-level intimacy. Most of us aren’t engaging in rimming with a hookup.
It can be done from behind but is more often done with one partner on their back with their legs spread and knees bent. Practice good hygiene and/or use a dental dam if it makes you more comfortable. Enjoy the sensation whether you are rimming or being rimmed!
Read: Rimming Tips: How to Give a Rim Job
4. Ass Facesitting
Some people like not being able to breathe, while knowing they are being drowned by a tsunami of flesh from the ass they worship. And that’s great, as there’s no other place they want to be.
Ass facesitting requires balance, trust, and safety to know how to sit where their lover’s nose is either safely poking out the top of the rear cleavage, or how to facesit completely with short but safe suffocation sequences.
Also known as “queening” or “kinging” in some circles, ass facesitting is often done with the submissive below their dom/mes ass. A smotherbox can also hold a subs head in place while the queen or king sits and smothers.
Read: The Fine Art of Facesitting
5. Marking, Biting and Scratching
Not for everyone, like every sexual activity, but marking can be used as a form of ass worship. I saw someone on the beach last week whose formerly peach-colored ass was purple and blue from all the impact play it had endured—they seemed very happy and spry.
Biting and scratching are generally reserved for closer friends and lovers, and it takes a clear conversation around boundaries and consent. Maybe you like the cane, or the crop. Perhaps a leather studded flogger is more to your liking.
Read: BDSM Marking: 13 Ways to Mark Your Submissive
6. Ass Play and Toys
Dildos and buttplugs and vibrators, oh my! Asses are great to use toys with, as long as you have condoms and lube, and take things SLOW. Be smart and safe with your toys, as things without handles have been known to disappear up into the nether regions.
Experiment with sensory toys that tease and tantalize the fleshy skin of the buttocks before you play around with penetration. Put the ass on a pedestal by using dildos designed especially for the butt, anal beads, anal vibrators, butt plugs, and other wonderous toys.
Read: 8 Reasons to Use a Butt Plug during Kinky Sex
7. Anal Sex
Full penetration, why not? Have a detailed conversation about consent and limits. Make sure to bathe and clean up beforehand, then liberally use lubrication before entry.
No matter what you see in porn, do NOT go ass to vagina. Take the condom off and get a new one, then visit Vagina Land. Want to return to Anal Town? Put on another new condom! Don’t be afraid to throw your tongue in there instead though, ha ha.
Read: 5 Best Anal Sex Positions for Maximum Pleasure
Asses can take both powerful punishment and extensive pleasure, so know your boundaries and your lover’s and play well within them!
Enjoy the buttstuff, friends!
Sincerely,
Addi “Malcolm Lovejoy” Stewart
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