What is Small Penis Humiliation?
Small penis humiliation, or the SPH kink, is a type of verbal erotic humiliation aimed at a man’s penis.
The dominant person, woman or man, consensually degrades the submissive’s penis for its size, but also sometimes its shape, texture, and its ability to please. The practice may involve sexual acts or just the verbal aspect, and can take place as public humiliation or in private.
While most men with a small or smaller-sized penis worry about women’s judgment or criticism, a man with an SPH fetish will welcome it.
Small Penis Humiliation Facts & Ideas
1. You don’t have to have a small penis to enjoy SPH kink.
Some men who enjoy the shame and judgment around their penis size may not actually have a tiny penis.
They may just like the humiliation of being told their penis is useless and ineffectual. And the women they seek will get off on it, either because they are a true domme or just like playing the part. A dominatrix will weaken a man’s sense of manhood if that’s what he wants.
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2. Role playing with your small penis as the main character works for SPH.
Whether your penis is small or not, doctor patient role plays are a perfect way to act out the humiliation. She can play doctor and bring out her tape measure. When you drop your pants, she’ll tsk at the sad sight before her, wondering how you can make any woman happy with what she sees.
You can also pretend to be at the sperm bank for a donation. The sexy nurse asks that you beat off in front of her, but as you try, she tells you she’s not sure a worthy sample will come out of such a small acorn like yours.
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3. Most men who enjoy SPH are submissive and may also be a cuckold.
SPH is often associated with cuckoldry, as not being able to satisfy your partner is part and parcel of the dynamic.
The submissive man may be asked to (and also enjoy) being in the room to watch his partner have sex with another man with a penis that is much bigger in length and/or girth than his own. She will compare and remind him how much she is enjoying what a larger penis can do for her. This is often seen as the ultimate in humiliation play.
Sometimes SPH fetish is related to the feminization or sissification of a man. A dominant partner may compare his penis to the size of a clitoris, although many dommes don’t approve of using female genitalia as a way of insulting the penis.
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4. Chastity play and non-penetrative sex is part of the SPH fetish.
Many men who don’t think their member is worth using may want it locked up for being “bad” at what it’s supposed to do. This type of chastity play might be a cage with a key or just a mental cage.
The man with a small penis may be more than happy to please his girlfriend or femdom mistress in as many ways other than penetration as possible. In fact, she doesn’t need to take her clothes off at all, as many SPH lovers enjoy the CFNM kink (Clothed Female Naked Male).
Maybe she’ll want you to rub her feet, give her an erotic head-to-toe massage, or just wait on her every command. Maybe your true talent lies in oral satisfaction. Not to worry if you’re unsure—a domme will tell you what she likes and how she likes it.
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5. Cock and Ball Torture can be a crossover SPH kink.
Does your unworthy member need some discipline of its own? If you love humiliation, you may also enjoy CBT or just CT. A prod, a slap, a tickle, mixed with a little torture is a perfect complement for some when engaging in consensual small penis humiliation.
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6. There’s an SPH kink community online where pictures and barbs are traded.
The SPH community includes men of diverse ages, sexual orientations, socioeconomic levels, races, and personalities. It definitely does not follow the one-size-fits-all format (sorry, I couldn’t help myself.)
Not every guy with a small penis humiliation fetish will have a lover or partner willing to humiliate him and his package. In BDSM, humiliation is not nearly as popular as bondage or spanking, so the submissive man who seeks this kind of treatment may seek an online outlet where he posts pictures of his penis for the purpose of being mocked. Or he may pay a webcam dominatrix to chastise and humiliate him.
I don’t care about penis size myself. As someone who has been with XL to micro penises, and everything in between, size to me is more a state of mind. There are many ways to explore sexuality beyond penetration, especially if you’re open to BDSM and all it offers. Small or large, I just want a confident lover.
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If you’re a submissive man who enjoys SPH kinks, we’d love to hear about your fetish in the comments.
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