Clothed Female Naked Male, or CFNM, is a kind of sex play or power play that exploits the gender binary by turning it upside down.
Where women have long been paraded naked for men’s pleasure and service, in CFNM the traditional sexual power dynamic changes hands.
What Is CFNM?
CFNM stands for Clothed Female Naked Male. CFNM is a fetish or sexual event that means exactly what it sounds like: in this kink, a woman or women are fully clothed, and a man or men are nude.
Women take on the role of dominance, even in casual, daily settings wearing street clothes or office clothes, and men become the sexualized, vulnerable, naked playthings for her sexual or power pleasure.
While this is all about sex and power, the CFNM play itself can be a sexual or non-sexual situation. The Clothed Female Naked Male kink can take place privately at home in an everyday scenario, such as cooking dinner or watching television. Or it can entail voyeurism, exhibitionism, dominance and submission sex play, group sex, femdom, punishment and humiliation.
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All About CFNM Kink
For CFNM play the woman, or women, generally wear everyday clothes such as work clothes or casual clothing. She may wear dominatrix-style outfits like leather or PVC, but more commonly, the casual power of the female in ordinary settings is the name of the game, rather than classic BDSM outfits.
In Clothed Female Naked Male kink, the woman’s power is innate, and the male is sexually vulnerable and naked, not specifically because he gets to see her in sexualized costumes.
For example, in CFNM, she may be working at her home desk in a jogging suit or business casual wear for Zoom meetings, while he sits naked on the sidelines awaiting any whim or desire she may have.
She may be watching television after a long day of work, in comfy jeans and a sweatshirt. He is naked and on standby if she wants a soda or channel change, or wants to watch him jerk off on a commercial break. She may want to watch him cook for her naked, or order him to masturbate if she feels so inclined.
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Commonly in CFNM, groups of clothed women and multiple naked men gather. The clothed females will mingle, chat, and enjoy leisure time and camaraderie, part of which entails watching the naked men, humiliating them sexually, ordering them to perform sexual acts, forced orgasm, denied orgasm, or asking for other forms of service such as clearing away plates or modeling their bodies for her pleasure.
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What Is a CFNM Party?
A Clothed Female Naked Male party may take place as a special event at a nightclub or more commonly, a private party. The CFNM party can be a luxury shindig with DJs, pools and hot tubs, catered dinners, or a basic house party with consenting guests enjoying music and mingling at home.
The CFNM party involves, obviously, clothed female and naked male participants. It can be a casual dinner or drinks scenario where the men are naked, but often has a kind of “bachelorette” party atmosphere with games involving Clothed Females and Naked Males.
CFNM Party Games
The CFNM party is usually a kind of sex party, with sex games. The whole point is the amusement of the women, on their terms.
This may include lineups comparing cocks and asses, males dancing for the clothed women, women commanding males to have or avoid erections, male-on-male action at her request for humiliation purposes, or voyeurism.
You may see dick decorating for entertainment or humiliation, anal penetration of naked men by dildos or cocks for her amusement and titillation, human furniture made of naked men, nude waitering, dancing competitions, beauty contests for balls, and penis ring-toss games.
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Why Is CFNM a Thing?
Clothed Female Naked Male turns on some women because of the stereotype reversal that gives them power, because they enjoy looking at naked men, enjoy humiliating naked men, or simply enjoy naked male bodies.
The personal lack of exposure while males are naked gives the power imbalance center stage. For some women, CFNM is an occasional fun adventure, and for others, it is an ongoing fetish.
Lots of men are also aroused by the idea of the female not being accessible at all, by embarrassment and vulnerability being exposed, by servicing women at their command, and by humiliation and submission.
Clothed Female Naked Male parties are a risqué kind of group sex with women participating only to give orders, and this unusual arrangement can be very erotic.
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CFNM in BDSM
Clothed Female Naked Male kink is usually a kind of BDSM, that ranges from mild and fun to intense and extreme femdom, sexual humiliation, and CFNM as punishment.
For many, CFNM is a sexy game among many kinds of sexy games, and for others, it is part of a femdom lifestyle of female domination and male humiliation and submission.
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CFNM Femdom
Clothed Female Naked Male can be part of femdom relationships and arrangements. Femdom is when a male is submissive and the female is the dominant partner, and can include BDSM, humiliation, sissification, small penis humiliation, CFNM, and more.
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CFNM as Punishment
In a dom-sub relationship, femdom, or similar power dynamics, Clothed Female Naked Male can be used as a form of punishment for disobedience, and failure to please.
CFNM Roleplay
Clothed Female Naked Male kink often takes place with women in ordinary clothes, being themselves, and men, naked. But it is also perfect for role play adventures involving one or both teams playing different parts.
Any roleplay scene can become a CFNM roleplay- a doctor examining a naked patient, a boss commanding a male secretary to get naked, a ruler expecting her peasant to disrobe, or a prostitute turning the tables of command. Let your imagination run wild!
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