Goddess Kink: How to Worship Your Goddess

Who Is a Goddess in Kink and BDSM?

In the realm of kink and BDSM, a goddess is a dominant woman, sometimes called a femdom, in a relationship with a submissive. A goddess is confident, alluring, commanding, beautiful, and sexy.

The submissive is usually a male (but could be a woman or identify as any gender) and submits fully to the desires of his goddess. The submissive may be a husband, lover, partner, slave or pet.

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What Is Goddess Worship

Goddess worship has always existed. In BDSM and kink, the religious aspects are taken away where admiration and appreciation remain as well as sexual adoration of the goddess aka femdom.

Goddess worship is how the submissive male treats his goddess (dominant woman) to show his love and respect. A goddess is to be revered, lavished with attention, and served dutifully by her submissive partner.

The submissive will be hopelessly devoted to his goddess, worshiping her as though she were a deity of sorts. No amount of attention will ever be too much for his goddess who deserves to be on the pedestal he has placed her.

Acts of worship may be constant throughout the day, an act here, a compliment there, a task later on. Worship can also be contained to a session wherein a specific act such as an erotic massage might take place.

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10 Ways to Worship Your Goddess

1. Worship through Service

The foundation of goddess worship is through service—giving and doing for your goddess what she loves. It is important to please and pleasure a goddess and this can be done through the simplest of tasks.

A sub can worship his domme through slave-like behavior, waiting on his goddess hand and foot, ready to attend to her every whim. He will anticipate what she needs before she asks. Daily worship acts include cooking and serving, cleaning, errands and deliveries, accomplishing tasks that the goddess sees beneath her.

Goddess worship also includes the sub’s response to the demands or requests of the goddess. She may ask her submissive to give her a bath, massage her, braid her hair, or let her put her feet up on his back.

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2. Worship with Words

Compliments and praise are building blocks of worshiping a goddess. A dutiful sub will never run out of words of admiration and adoration for his lovely goddess. He will remind her through his words how beautiful, intelligent, sexy, and important his goddess is.

She may invite the praise, and there may even be a praise kink that is part of the worship. A goddess’ sub will learn over time which words have the greatest effect on his dominant.

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3. Ceremonies and Rituals

Acts of devotion may be turned into special ceremonies like a collaring ceremony or everyday rituals that stand alone. A ritual may see a submissive kneeling before his goddess to say ten things he loves about her. A daily ritual may involve serving breakfast in bed and providing a foot rub before she gets out of bed.

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4. Worship through Gifts

Goddess worship can take on a monetary component wherein the submissive will gift his goddess expensive items that he knows she desires or that will bring her pleasure.

Gifts may include a new pair of shoes, jewelry, or clothing. A gift may also take the form of a weekend getaway or a longer trip where she can relax and enjoy extended worship while away from her day-to-day responsibilities.

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5. Goddess Shoe and Boot Worship

Shoe and boot worship has been a primary form of worship between submissives and dominatrixes forever. It entails literally worshiping the ground a goddess walks on.

This type of goddess worship may involve a sub getting down to kiss or lick her shoes or boots. It may include polishing or waxing footwear, taking her shopping for new shoes or boots, or the putting on and taking off of shoes.

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6. Goddess Foot Worship

Foot worship is a dream for submissives with a foot fetish. A sub can worship his goddess’s feet through washing, massage, kissing, licking, or giving pedicures. He can take her shoe shopping and buy her sexy stilettos or thigh high boots.

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7. Goddess Body Worship

Goddess worship will include her body or more specifically parts of her body that her submissive will be expected to worship. You may be worshiping her hair, her breasts, her legs, her feet, her pussy—any part she wants attention paid to.

Body worship might involve compliments, caresses, massages, moisturizing, or BDSM practices like spanking or bondage.

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8. Vagina Worship

Vagina worship is part of goddess worship for many power-exchange couples. The sub should always tell his goddess how beautiful her pussy is, how lucious her lips are, how sweet the aroma that emanates from between her thighs is. Praise the pussy! Lavish the labia!

Apart from words, you can worship her vagina through touch, by your hands or sensory implements like a vibrator. Use your oral prowess to provide long slow rounds of cunnilingus. Let your goddess sit on your face while you lick and munch her gorgeous pussy.

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9. Worship through Sexual Submission

Let your goddess have her way with you. Be her slave when it comes to sex and her dirty desires. You’ve heard of cockwarming, right? Make it your mission to keep her pussy warm and wet if that sounds appealing to her.

Know how to please her sexually in every way she craves or demands, whether that’s through a slow and sensual seduction, or a rough and ravishing take-me-now approach. Be ready to respond at a moment’s notice to her sexual whims and commands.

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10. Worship through Sexual Exhibition

Your goddess worship may be strictly exhibitionist. She may ask you to masturbate in front of you, to shoot your come at her feet. She might want you to perform your daily tasks wearing nothing but a bunny-tail butt plug.

This type of servitude can be humiliating and degrading, but it is a kind of worship that your femdom goddess may appreciate or request, and you will enjoy because it brings her pleasure.

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Are you a Goddess? Do you worship a Goddess? Please share!