Nothing like the great outdoors and a little bit of outdoor bondage.
If nature inspires you or revs up your sexual energy, that’s no surprise. Outdoor sex is literally as old as the hills. There’s something primal about wilderness sex, and beach sex is as romantic as it gets.
Soaking in the sun, rain, and towering trees, the earthy scents of mother nature, and the emotional range from the awe at seeing a deer to the fear or panic as storm clouds roll over us—all serve to heighten our innate animalism.
If you enjoy making love outdoors but are looking for kinkier ideas like outdoor bondage and outdoor BDSM, here are some playful tips and BDSM ideas for adventurous lovers.
11 Outdoor Bondage and BDSM Ideas
1. Wear Bondage Gear Under Your Clothes
Start mildly kinky just by wearing your BDSM favorites under regular outdoor clothes. Amp things up by wearing a dildo, a butt plug, or nipple clamps.
2. Take Your Sub for an On-Leash Walk
Make use of a nearby dog park or a more private ravine, and take your submissive for a leashed walk. The sub can be on all fours or on two legs, depending on the surroundings and audience.
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3. Get Tied to a Tree or Post
Play a modern version of cops and robbers or Hardy Boys and use a tree or post as the site of bondage and discipline.
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4. Suspension Bondage from a Tree
Suspension bondage, shibari rope suspension bondage, hook suspension bondage, and other kinds of BDSM suspension bondage are high -risk extreme forms of BDSM.
If you are experienced at suspension bondage play and can’t get enough of the thrill, outdoor suspension bondage can add in the elements. You can use a tree for suspension. Reports from those who have been there are that swaying in the breeze is the ultimate in liberation experiences.
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5. Kinky Camping
Whether you aim for privacy or for a camping experience with kinky swingers or a fetish campsite, kinky camping is a fun way to get naked, tied up and down, flogged, and fucked in tents, around campfires, or in the blueberry bushes.
You can escape just the two of you and enjoy all the private BDSM time you like. But there are actual kinky camping resorts set up with equipment and furniture to explore fetishes. Some are geared to mingling or group experiences and some just cater to couples who want an outdoor playground experience.
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6. Primal Kink Play
Primal kink views sex and the natural world as naturally kinky. Men and women are both naturally dominant and submissive in different ways. Sex is athletic, rough, and predatorial.
BDSM roles are viewed more naturally as predator and prey but sex is animalistic, with circling, scratching, biting, and sometimes competition between predators. The only real place for primal kink sex is outside.
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7. Sailboat Sex
One memorable afternoon in my book was being blindfolded on a sailboat stark naked, and feeling the calm lull and the terror of the ride. And then the RIDE. Making love and making kinky love on a boat is something to cross off your bucket list.
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8. Meanwhile, Back at the Ranch…
The kinky world of pony play can play out beautifully when you join actual horses. Most of us don’t have access to horses or a ranch, and privacy may be hard to come by.
But maybe you have a kinky friend who is a rancher, and she’ll look the other way while you and your lover prance in horse tack around the leathery, lathery smell and the sounds of real horses. Use the actual switches and saddles for BDSM and love gear.
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9. Little Red Riding Hood
The great outdoors gives endless options for role play. Use a bit of imagination and some old fairy tales to enjoy role plays that involve BDSM power exchange in new ways.
Little Red Riding Hood is a perfect example of an abduction fantasy that can take place in the woods or a ravine near you. There are troll-under-the bridge tales, too, Robin Hood adventures, and much more to explore.
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10. Kinky Scavenger Hunt
Who doesn’t love a scavenger hunt? Make it kinky and have a map to buried treasure in the woods. Have various “finds” that are actually slave tasks like choosing a tree branch for a spanking or finding the right post to be tied to for thirty minutes.
If you’re into humiliation play, you might have your lover crawl on their knees through a field or wear lacy women’s nightgown while walking through the woods.
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Outdoor BDSM Tips
Make Sure You Can Get Out of Bondage Quickly
When playing at outdoor bondage, make sure you’re able to cover your tracks and get out of bondage quickly if need be. By having easy cover-up clothing nearby and using simple outdoor bondage techniques rather than elaborate ties, you can go incognito faster.
Use branch switches for impact play rather than bringing your paddle and flog collection with you, for example. Consider in advance how to unravel a scene discreetly if necessary.
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Consider the Legalities and Risks of Getting Caught
Learn about nudity and obscenity and property laws in your area, and minimize risk by choosing discreet ways to play or willingly kinky audiences.
Think about Renting Private Property for Elaborate Scenes
You can enjoy outdoor BDSM to your heart’s content if you are on private property, your own or rented, or borrowed from a friend.
You still have to consider the potential audience—not flaunt outdoor bondage at the unwilling or unwitting. Buying privacy can be worth the thrill and remove the stress of unwanted consequences.
Read: How to Get Kinky in the Great Outdoors
Beware of Insects if Getting Naked
If you’re naked for your outdoor bondage scenes, be aware of local insect life and other wildlife. Raccoons and squirrels can carry disease or bite, and coyotes are a common danger. Use common sense—don’t attract wasps or bears with a picnic, or leave garbage that vermin and insects will swarm towards while your tied up!
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