Want to Become a Cuckold? Here’s How

Do you fantasize about becoming a cuckold? Do you secretly wish your lover had other lovers? Do you get excited when your wife humiliates you, or gets looked at by other men?

If your driving fantasy is coming home from work to find your wife getting skewered by a man with a foot-long cock, you might want to be a cuckold.

If you get intensely aroused when she criticizes your dick size, virility, or stamina, and suggests she needs another man, you may hope to really become a cuckold.

So You Want to Be a Cuckold..

You are not the first or the last guy who gets horniest when imagining—or watching—your wife flirt, date, or run around with other men.

Just about every guy imagines the woman he loves making love to other men. If you imagine her lover as someone with a more muscular body or bigger cock, or think about her rubbing your face in what she’s doing, you have a cuckolding fantasy.

Becoming a cuckold is something you dream about if you get off on humiliation as well as hoping your wife will have sex with other men. Cuckolding is a common fetish for lots of folks, but really gets those of us who enjoy power exchange relationships and BDSM hot under the collar.

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How to Become a Cuckold

While some guys dream of being a cuckold, others find themselves smack dab in the middle of their fantasy when they find out their wife is cheating. Others look for a dominant woman and hope cuckolding just happens.

Some men decide to make their dreams come true and communicate their sexual needs and fantasies to their partners.

If you want to become a cuckold, here are some cuckold tips that can help make that happen.

1. Understand Your Motivations

We don’t always analyze our sexual desires, but understanding your motivations when it comes to becoming a cuckold can help you better articulate them to your wife, and sell them better to her, so to speak.

Often, we do not understand what motivates our sexual fantasies, such as becoming a cuckold, until we give it consideration by thinking about it. So if you haven’t, now’s the time. What makes you tick in your desire to become a cuckold?

Some guys want to be subservient to their wife or girlfriend. Some find the idea of a woman cheating on her partner hot as hell. Some find it really exciting to imagine their partner being really excited and satisfied. Some imagine her enjoying a really good looking guy with a huge dick.

Some men want her to have unbridled, no-strings-attached sex, with someone she is not attached to. Some want to be shamed as part of cuckold humiliation play or degradation play. For some, this is a fleeting desire, part of a tapestry of different desires, and you want to experience it for real, just as you enjoy other kinks.

Read: Why Do Men Like Cuckold Play?

2. Share Your Cuckold Fantasies with Your Wife

Once you understand what is motivating you to become a cuckold, you should start by sharing your cuckolding fantasies with the future cuckoldress.

You can open up about how much it turns you on when men in public turn their heads for her, or flirt with her. You can share how much power she holds over you with her beauty or sexual energy. You can let her know you love the idea of doing what she tells you, or share your kink for being humiliated.

Read: What is a Hotwife? Living the Hotwife Lifestyle

3. Ask and Empower Her to Become a Hotwife

Let her know how much it turns you on having a hotwife, and let her know you are open to being a cuckold while she plays out her every fantasy with her favorite bulls.

Read: How to Turn Your Wife into a Hotwife

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4. No Partner? Find Cuckolding Lovers Online

It’s one thing to dream about becoming a cuckold when your wife is flirting with other men or taking the dominant stance with you in the bedroom. Lucky you! But what if you have cuckold fantasies and no cuckoldress in sight?

Make your fantasy come true by finding a lover who is into the idea. You can look for femdom lovers or for women with hotwifing or sadistic, humiliating desires. There are specialty sites online for guys who want to become a cuckold, or women looking for cuckolds and/or bulls.

Read: Best Cuckold Dating Sites

5. Discuss Cuckolding Boundaries

It’s always a good idea when venturing on the path to become a cuckold to discuss what your boundaries are. Everyone’s idea of being a cuckold is different, or may not match their partner’s exactly. Find out what each of you is comfortable with and turned on by.

Subjects that are relevant to this discussion might include voyeurism, intensity and methods of humiliation, power exchange dynamics, who is off limits for dating, that kind of stuff.

6. Start with Cuckold Roleplay

Not all men who have cuckold fantasies intend to become a cuckold in real life. Or you may want to try out roleplay to see how both of you enjoy the desires and emotions that come up.

Cuckold roleplay can be exciting for couples with men who want to explore cuckolds, or for those who don’t want to open the relationship but who do want to play with their fantasies. If one of you wants to cuckold and the other doesn’t, roleplay can be a compromise.

Read: 5 Cuckold Roleplay Ideas to Try

Cuckold roleplay will help you understand what turns you on, what emotions may surface, or what turns you off. It will build trust, pleasure and intimacy between you and your wife.

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7. Find Local Bulls for Cuckold Play

You can use specialty dating websites to find a hot stud for your wife, or look for bulls at sex parties or fetish parties.

Read: How to Find a Bull for Your Hotwife

8. Worship and Support Your Cuckoldress

If you want to become a cuckold and you want your wife to cuckold you, don’t freeze her out if she gives you what you want. And make sure you worship and support her even if it doesn’t play out according to your plan straight off the bat.

Support her as you both ease into the fantasies and the lifestyle. Enjoy each step of the journey, including the stops and starts. Think about her fantasies, too, since you are in this together, and be flexible and open minded along the way.

Read: Cuckold Confession: How I Became a Cuckold

Do you have cuckold fantasies? Dare to share!

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