Pussy torture is a consensual sadomasochist kink that involves inflicting or receiving pain on the vulva, labia, or vagina during BDSM sessions.
Sometimes called genital torture, genitorture, or vagina torture, pussy torture is often considered the female parallel to cock and ball torture.
The Pain and Pleasure of Pussy Torture
“Female genital torture” is generally the term used when women are sexually tortured by a political, cultural or religious authority. Female genital torture is often a weapon of war or tyranny, against political prisoners or minorities, including female prisoners in Mexico and Falun Gong, a religious minority in China.
Pussy torture however, refers to the consensual, sadomasochism kink, the BDSM play that some women enjoy.
The pleasure of consensual pussy torture is from inflicting pain or satisfying the cravings for pain and punishment of one’s submissive, masochistic partner, for the dominant lover, and of receiving painful stimulation and satisfying the Dom’s desire for control, from the submissive.
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Pussy torture can be mild or extreme.
Most sex with women involves some aspects of pussy torture albeit very mild manifestations. It is extremely pleasurable for many women, whether kinky or vanilla, to experience sensations and stimulation such as biting, squeezing, vibrating, straddling, being overtaken or “ravished,” stretching, spreading, pinching, or slapping.
Pussy torture is more a matter of degree. There are extreme pussy torture techniques as well, such as piercing or sewing, cutting, or heavy clamping.
There are many reasons why pussy torture is arousing and enjoyable beyond a submissive’s or masochist’s desire for and sexual enjoyment of pain. One is the variety of sensations experienced, another is the attention and focus on the pussy, another is the blood flow and increased genital circulation from stimulation, as well as the release of endorphins and hormones.
14 Pussy Torture Ideas
Some pussy torture preferences or techniques are very dangerous and unsafe, even if they are desired. Use common sense, and get training from experienced pussy torture practitioners or sex positive workshops, on safety.
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1. Impact Play
Spanking, slapping, and swatting motions on breasts, thighs, buttocks, and genitals can be very pleasurable for many women, not just as BDSM. Impact play on the vulva increases blood flow to the genitals and has a sensation of stinging or a rush. More intense or prolonged impact play is a common technique in pussy torture.
Impact implements can be anything, from an open palm to a fly swatter or spatula! In pussy torture and BDSM, frequently used implements of impact play include canes, paddles, and whips.
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2. Squeezing and Clamping
The sensation of squeezing the vulva or labia or even the clitoris can be a very pleasurable sensation. The pressure of squeezing and pinching can be part of pussy torture, especially clamping, which is very intense. Pussy torture clamping can be done on labia minora, labia majora, or the clitoris.
3. Genital Weights
To intensify the effect of clamping on pussy torture, or as part of predicament bondage, genital weights are sometimes added to clamps.
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4. Biting
Biting is another common and intensely pleasurable sensation to many, that can be very mild as well as very extreme. This can be enjoyed as a crossover kink for those who have a vampire fetish or enjoy role playing.
5. Straddling
For some women, straddling and riding various objects applies a wonderful pressure against the vulva and clitoris.
Straddling is not often torture—a pillow is a very commonly used device, for example. But in pussy torture, she may want to ride a wooden horse, or a sexual device like the Sybian, experiencing more pain as she exhausts and can’t keep her weight off of the painful object.
6. Erotic Electrostimulation
Using electroshock or electrostim is sometimes called electrosex. Electrical sensations are delivered with various devices, such as TENS machines or violet wands. Electrostim can be very risky, best explored with an experienced lover. There are workshops or online tutorials for safety. Skin burns, shock, and even death are possible if you don’t know what you’re doing!
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7. Stretching or Extreme Penetration
Pussy torture often involves stretching the vagina. This can mean being spread open and forced to maintain the spread or stretch. It can mean fisting. It can mean large dildos or other penetrative objects.
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8. Speculum
Using a gynecologist’s speculum can be part of erotic humiliation or medical kinks in pussy torture.
9. Hot Wax Play
The sensation of dripping candle wax is painful, burning, and fleeting, making it a popular practice in sensation play and erotic torture.
Candle wax can burn and injure you, especially in vulnerable body parts like the vulva or penis and testicles. You can get safer candle wax made for erotic wax play. Never drip hot wax directly into the vagina, despite what you may see in some pussy torture videos.
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10. Piercing and Sewing
Labia or clitoris piercings can be aesthetic and ornamental, but piercing play can also be part of an erotic torture practice. There are very intricate arrangements of pussy piercings that can be sewn up or roped together for torture effect.
Extreme masochists may practice receiving labia piercings and removing or changing location, for the thrill of the process rather than for the long-term use of the ring itself.
11. Crotch Rope
Riding on a rope, or doing a bit of tug of war over a rope for the rope burn and friction, can be pussy torture. Bondage that arranges a rope across the vulva or irritating to the clitoris is common.
12. Pussy Bondage
Wrapping the pussy tight in ropes, chains, leather or any other preferred bondage materials can also be part of pussy torture.
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13. Intense Vibration
Vibrating devices are common for women masturbating or playing with lovers. Using vibrators with intense vibrations for pussy torture is common.
14. Forced Orgasms/Orgasm Denial/Orgasm Control
Orgasm control can be a source of pussy torture. It is torture, after all, to be denied an orgasm, or forced to have one.
Pussy bondage often goes hand in hand with a strong wand vibrator, lodged against the clitoris, for forced orgasms. By keeping at it after she comes, you can also work in some post orgasm torture.
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