Do you have a favorite BDSM song or kinky playlist? Music for the boudoir, or the dungeon, can set the mood or simply express or reflect our dirty desires.
18 Songs about BDSM and Kink
1. “Disciplina” by Lali
This scorching hot BDMS song by Argentinian sensation Lali comes right out and tells you what she wants. The lyrics are in Spanish but translate to “dominating you is my motivation” and “discipline, sub, dom” on repeat. The BDSM video is shot in sultry red and black with loads of latex and leather.
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2. “Freak” by Tyga with Megan Thee Stallion
“I need a freak, freak, freak,” raps Tyga, spelling out the kind of oral and booty he wants in explicit detail. The BDSM video is the one with Megan Thee Stallion, who goes full domme and chains up her servant.
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3. “Easy” by Son Lux
An artful and intriguing BDSM video with blindfolds, beautiful shibari rope artistry, suspension bondage, and stilettos. A stunning small film.
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4. “Sucker for Pain” by Lil Wayne, Wiz Khalifa & Imagine Dragons w/ Logic & Ty Dolla $ign ft X Ambassadors
This BDSM video and song features sex, chains, sadomasochism, cages, and more. It’s about wanting “to chain you up, wanna tie you down,” but reflects on how we use pain to handle pain.
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5. “Fun with Ropes” by the Go Go’s
“You tell me that I’m sick (you’re sick) / As you strap me to the floor / You know it makes my heart quick / I’ll come crawling back for more…”
This BDSM from 1978 never made it to their first album, but the Go Go’s enjoy playing it live and getting in touch with their kinky side.
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6. “BBHMM” by Rihanna
Another BDSM video that is really a short film. This one shocked all kinds of audiences for all the different ways Rihanna “goes there.” It’s an interesting exploration of power dynamics on the theme of gender and race. Ri Ri don’t play in this video… press the link, and enjoy!
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7. “Only” by Nicki Minaj ft. Drake, Lil Wayne, and Chris Brown
No holds barred, Minaj is on top in this BDSM video. In sky-high stilettos and a Venetian mask, she wields the whip while her servants are tied up and groveling. It’s a bondage bordello! Lots of stunning women in thigh-high boots and kinky BDSM gear, and guest rappers on their fetish for BBW and thick women.
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8. “Closer” by Nine Inch Nails
Degradation, domination, pain, humiliation, bondage, violation, suspension: this BDSM is really a small horror movie and an intense work of art. The triumphant acceptance when Trent Reznor belts out, “I want to fuck you like an animal” is epic.
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9. “Breath Control” by Recoil
Recoil pushes those BDSM buttons and this song is specifically about breath control, and tells the story of initiation to the choking arts.
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10. “Pretty Tied Up” by Guns N’ Roses
“I know this chick she lives down on Melrose / She ain’t satisfied without some pain” is how this BDSM song by rock ‘n’ roll legends Guns N’ Roses starts. The rock anthem goes on to celebrate the erotic joys of a kinky, insatiable woman.
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11. “Sweet Dreams” by the Eurythmics
“Sweet dreams are made of these / Who am I to disagree?” sings a gloriously androgynous Annie Lennox with short cropped flame red hair, tapping a switch.
“Some of them want to abuse you / Some of them want to be abused…” It’s an amazing song and soundtrack complete with blindfolds and black leather gloves. This BDSM song has withstood the test of time—a kinky hit, and also a masterpiece.
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12. “Blindfold Me” by Kelis ft. Nas
In this BDSM video, Kelis is in leather and latex lingerie, a leopard-print bodycon dress, red satin and diamond panties, and a black blindfold.
“When he want it he blindfolds me / Then I get sexy on him / Get sexy on him,” sings this kinky siren.
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13. “Master and Servant” by Depeche Mode
A lot of bands were exploring kink and BDSM song themes in the 80s, and this classic Depeche Mode song tells it like it is. “Domination’s the name of the game / In bed or in life, they’re both just the same…” they sing. “You treat me like a dog, get me down on my knees / We call it Master and Servant.”
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14. “Pain and Pleasure” by Black Atlass
Silky smooth R&B in this beautiful softcore kinky video with a gorgeous lap dancer in kinky black lingerie showing off her stuff.
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15. “Let Me Show You All the Secrets of the Torture Garden” by Ordo Rosarius Equilibrio
It’s hard to classify this brooding, moody dungeon soundtrack band from Sweden, but most of their library can be considered fetish or BDSM music. Dark and sensual stuff.
“I will tie you to a chair, kiss your neck and pull your hair / Let me show you who I am,” goes this eerie and beautiful BDSM song. “Golden wine in sterling cup / I will have you drink it up…”
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16. “Call Me Master” by Blood on the Dance Floor
This is probably the most addictive BDSM song on this list. You just can’t stop the melody from running through your head, and playing it again.
“I’m dominant by definition / I’m turned on by your submission” it plays, then breaks into “You you yo you you are my slave / My little fucking disaster…”
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17. “Black Leather” by Prayers ft. Kat Von D
This BDSM song is trippy and edgy goth stuff that sounds like early Cure. An ode to the darker side and to black leather. “My blade is kind, my hand is cold / Approach me with caution, ‘cause I’m losing control / Black leather possess my soul…”
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18. “Teeth” by Lady Gaga
This BDSM video is more couture and weird than sexy or seductive, but there’s something compelling and compulsive about it as a piece of art. There is a gamut of fetish masks, spikes, devices, and hoods. Lady Gaga explores domination as she orders, “Open your mouth, boy.”
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