Looking for BDSM blogs to stay informed, safe, and connected to the BDSM community? Here are some of our favorites!
13 Blogs About BDSM and Kink
1. Dom Sub Living
This BDSM blog is by Alesandra. She says, “I help kinky men and women build their Dom/sub relationships and live the BDSM relationship lifestyle of their dreams.”
Dom Sub Living is a BDSM blog with “dozens of in-depth articles … designed to help you re-program your vanilla beliefs and create a real BDSM lifestyle.”
Alesandra has a huge library of articles, videos, tutorials, blogs, and other BDSM resources on every aspect of domination and submission, relationships, and kink.
Read: Your Kinky Lifestyle: Who Needs to Know?
2. Kink Academy
Kink Academy is a massive BDSM blog and kink resource featuring over 2000 videos and more than 140 teachers or experts. “Kink Academy is a comprehensive library of sex-ed videos for adventurous, consenting adults. Whether you’re new to kink or experienced, there’s something for everyone to learn on Kink Academy.
The site is very well organized so that you can access the topics of your journey or your fantasies easily and learn more about them. A subject index allows easy clicking to find out more on any topic. Subjects include polyamory, fisting, boot blacking, fire sports, chastity, disability, rope bondage, after play, sissification, tantra, and humiliation.
You can also search by expert name, so if you have a favorite teacher or enjoyed a specific tutorial, you can get to the rest of their videos easily.
Read: Sissy Kink Explained: 10 Types of BDSM Sissies
3. Loving BDSM
Loving BDSM is a BDSM blog and resource site designed to “help kinksters like you have happy, healthy power exchange relationships. No matter how you define BDSM and no matter what kind of kinky relationship you want, we’re here to help!”
This BDSM blog is hosted by John Brownstone, the dom, and Kayla Lords, the sub, a married couple in a Daddy Dom Little Girl power exchange relationship.
This friendly and open couple have in depth talks on their Youtube channel about brat tamers, subspace, humor, domition and submission, and much more.
A helpful touch is their sex and disability resource, which highlights sex and BDSM blogs about neurodiversity or disability and kink.
Read: Introduction to Daddy Doms and DDLG Relationships
4. Kinkly
A BDSM blog with lots of variety, Kinkly has webinars, a sex dictionary, a position guide, a Q&A section, sex toy reviews, and much more.
Recent articles on this BDSM blog include “7 Signs Your BDSM Relationship is Abusive,” “I Tried a Realistic Horse Dildo,” and “Inside the World of Pet Play.”
Articles on Kinkly are in-depth and cover all the bases.
Read: 13 Types of Sex Positions, Endless Possibilities
5. Kynk 101
Kynk 101 is a BDSM blog offering “a free resource for new and established kinksters to explore and ask questions.”
There are loads of helpful and important BDSM blog articles on beginner kink, safety and risk, and the basics. But there are some really interesting, unusual articles on more obscure topics, too.
We’ve all heard of pony play and impact play, but “What is Gor?” This BDSM blog article talks about a kinky subculture of Goreans, inspired by science fiction by John Newman.
“Kinky Advocacy” highlights struggles for kinky freedom around the world. “BDSM and the DSM” talk about the world of psychology and how fetishes have been pathologized by mainstream psychiatry.
Read: How Many of These 12 Weird Fetishes Do You Know?
6. Sugarbutch Chronicles
Sugarbutch Chronicles is the BDSM blog of Sinclair Sexsmith, who identifies as a white nonbinary butch dominant. They are well known in the literary erotica and lesbian erotica community, acting as both writer and editor in multiple editions of the Best Lesbian Erotica series.
The Sugarbutch BDSM blog has been online since 2006 and has won countless awards and accolades. You can find oodles of sizzling dirty stories, as well as literary quality poetry on BDSM themes of power exchange and lust.
There are lots of reviews of sex toys and other sex sites. Sexsmith also offers an endless array of articles on general Master/servant power exchange dynamics and very specific niche topics such as creating your own fist dildo, or how to get your erotica published.
Read: Slave Training Ideas: How to Train Your BDSM Slave
7. Submissive Guide
Submissive Guide is a BDSM blog aimed at “helping you find yourself.” It is “a community where submissive mentoring, self-taught training and BDSM exploration are in focus. We are dedicated to helping submissives understand themselves and the service they wish to provide; from sexual to domestic, personal assistant to pain slut and everything in between.”
Browse the site for tips, information, and resources to help you improve your personal submission with or without a partner.
There is a wealth of information here tailored specifically to submissive kink lovers. The fundamentals or essentials are well represented, but no matter your experience level, you’ll find new and interesting information. There are hundreds of articles.
This BDSM blog has kinky sex information, but takes a holistic view and talks about relationships and psychology as well as practical everyday issues. For example, recent posts include info on moving in with your dominant, coping with jealousy, and looking at the concept of ritual in D/s relationships.
Read: BDSM Submissives: 16 Types of Subs
8. Kink Weekly
Kink Weekly BDSM blog is “an online magazine for those interested in BDSM, no matter your orientation, role, or identity. It is updated each week with articles, photography, erotic writing, and reviews about all things kinky.”
Read: BDSM Roles: 33 Dominant and Submissive Roles
9. Kinky Tiger
Kinky Tiger is a BDSM blog by a London-based kinky millennial. Tiger is a top who is into latex and sensory deprivation play, among other things. This BDSM blog has a lighter touch that kinky people with a milder touch may appreciate, and also focuses heavily on the joys of fetish fashion and kinky aesthetics.
Read: Dominatrix Outfit and Femdom Clothing Ideas
10. Bound Together
Mimsy and Vagabond are a monogamous kinky feminist couple. Their emphasis is on the rejection of patriarchal control and upholding women and their rights, while being in a loving male dominant female submissive marriage.
They also blog for people who love kinky sex such as BDSM, knife play, impact play, humiliation, and more, but who aren’t in a lifestyle. People who are kinky in the bedroom, in other words, but not outside of it.
Recent posts include “The Truth About Punishment in BDSM,” “A Guide to BDSM Safety for Bottoms and Subs,” and “Are Kinky People Born or Made?”
Read: What Are My Kinks? 13 Ways to Find Your Kink
11. Love Letters to a Unicorn
Auntie Vice is a kink educator whose BDSM blog is about “BDSM from the bottom.” It is also academic in research and tone. It is a very inclusive BDSM blog that aims to bring diverse voices into the forum.
Read: Submissive Rules and Tasks for Subs
12. Rope Connections
Rope Connections is a BDSM blog focused on rope bondage. Extensive coverage of rope types, rope knotting techniques, and rope safety is the focus here. There are lots of tutorials and articles on the topic.
Read: What Is a Rope Bunny and How Can You Meet One?
13. A Leap of Faith
A Leap of Faith is the BDSM blog about “a walk in the shoes of the barefoot sub.” This BDSM blogger shares her journey as a submissive, mother, writer, and runner with us, including sex toys, vaginal stretching for fisting, fetish costs, and celebrating boobs of all genders.
Read: Breast Fetish: 9 Types of Breast Kinks
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