Are you in a male chastity relationship, or curious about exploring the male chastity fetish or lifestyle?
You may be looking for male chastity blogs or podcasts and forums on subjects about or related to male chastity.
If you are new to hearing about male chastity as a kink, fetish, practice, or BDSM lifestyle, basically it is exactly as it sounds: a practice and kink focused on controlling male sexuality.
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Male chastity essentially takes control of sexuality from the male and gives it to his partner. This can be physical and psychological control. Male chastity can be a practice in any relationship, but is most often between heterosexual men and female partners.
The female takes charge by choosing when and where he can experience sex, and how. She decides when he masturbates and when they make love. He may wear a chastity cage on his cock to prevent attempted handling and use.
Many men find it liberating to give up control of their sexual energy and pleasure. Their relationship to sexuality may feel compulsive. They may feel depleted from too much jacking off. They may have so much devotion to their wife or girlfriend that her direction and guardianship is in itself erotic. They may be very submissive and offer this as part of BDSM.
Male chastity can feel both humiliating and empowering or liberating, depending who you ask and what their motivations are. Like most kinks, there are a variety of reasons why people are drawn to it or for the feelings and needs they experience.
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10 Male Chastity Blogs, Forums, and Pods
1. Denying Thumper
For some men, male chastity is a form of BDSM and also of orgasm denial—not just occasionally, but as a long-term project. This male chastity journal is about a man’s experience of being caged completely for four years. He no longer perceives himself as a person with a penis and doesn’t identify that way. He sometimes refers to his identity as “post penis.”
He says it all when he finds his wife’s new vibrator and imagines her using it to climax while he never will. “Her sexual pleasure is paramount and mine is forever sublimated to that higher priority.”
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2. Male Chastity Journal
For almost ten years and over five million page views, the Male Chastity Journal has chronicled the marriage of “Lion and Lioness” and their use of various chastity cages. Lion uses one cage or another, as Lioness sees fit, constantly, and is released when she wants sex or when he visits a doctor.
Although the couple is interested in kink and BDSM, they see the chastity cage as more of a kind of wedding ring than a practice of submission. It is symbolic of the fact that all of his sexual pleasure will come from his wife.
Both say their relationship and communication has improved immeasurably because they have to discuss sex in detail openly and honestly. Spanking is also a big part of the BDSM aspect of their relationship.
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3. Cut to the Chaste
This male chastity journal is by a middle-aged cis and straight male. “I started this blog to chronicle my journey in male chastity. Then I decided to start writing posts about the chaste life from different angles and reviewing a few chastity devices I’ve tried.
In addition to the orgasm denial aspect, I enjoy enforced chastity and often turn to a professional key holder I’ve become acquainted with to help with that. I like writing about chastity and kink in general. I also enjoy writing science fiction and dark fantasy fiction.”
There are lots of interesting ideas here on orgasm denial and how that can amplify sexual pleasure, but Chaste’s conviction is that male chastity is much more than this, and this is not part of everyone’s chastity practice.
Interesting examinations of chastity from the perspective of a kinky guy who was once a dom but turned the page.
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4. Cager Johnson on Medium
This male chastity journal is by Cager Johnson and talks about his experience in complete submission to his wife, who owns his cock. Lots of quick chatty posts on topics of BDSM and female-led relationships.
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5. Chastity Stories
You’ll find lots of erotica on chastity themes and related fetishes here, by all kinds of authors, and some true confessions as well, making parts of it a male chastity journal.
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6. Chastity Mansion
This male chastity forum has been around for more than fifteen years, and includes extensive chatting, story exchange, questions, personal experiences, and photos on the topic. Lots of male chastity, orgasm denial, keyholder relationships, BDSM, female-led relationships, and sissification.
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7. Chastity Forums
This male chastity forum is all about “living the real life under lock and key.” There are forums here on the journey to chastity, fiction erotica on male chastity kinks, chastity device reviews, and much more.
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8. Chastity on Reddit
Lots of guys sharing their dick in cage pictures here, as well as chats on female led relationships, BDSM, and orgasm denial.
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9. Chastity Pod
This male chastity podcast has a couple dozen really interesting discussions.
“Everybody gets horny but only a certain kind of person wants to stay that way! Join two chastity enthusiasts Deniedumpling and Locked Fist Monster as they discuss the thrilling world of male chastity and find out why people put their roosters in cages.”
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10. Krystine’s FLR Podcast
This male chastity podcast is different because it takes the perspective of the female who controls her man’s sexuality and chastity.
“My podcast is about my journey into the FLR (Female Led Relationship) lifestyle. While my marriage looks mostly normal from the outside, I fully control my husband through the chastity device that I have his “manhood” locked in. Follow along weekly as I bring you up to speed on where we are now, and how an outwardly vanilla life operates alongside a very kinky secret life!”
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