Are you a hotwife with a stag or cuckold worshipping your every move? Then you are living your best life! You may be looking for hotwife ideas and hotwife challenges to titillate and excite—you and your horny hubby, and all the other lucky guys.
Some of you may be wondering, what is a hotwife challenge? A hotwife challenge or hotwife dare is something for a to-do list, but not safe for work!
Hotwife challenges are naughty things you can do that will get your stag or cuckold husband all hot and bothered. Our hotwife dares list ranges from mild to wild, from flirting to flings. There’s something for you, whether you’re just fantasizing or you’re in a hotwife lifestyle.
Read: How to Find Cuckold Couples & Bulls Online
35 Hotwife Challenges and Ideas
1. Confess Your Fantasies about Other Men
Mild, yes, but always hot. Every man wants to know the nitty gritty dirt on what you imagine and play out in your mind. True confessions about other men will get your man riled up and hard as a rock, so this is good for foreplay as well as for embarking on a discussion about what you want and need.
Read: How to Be a Hotwife in Your Marriage
2. Read Him Hotwife Erotica
Keep a file for your favorite hotwife smut, then pull one out when you want to treat him to a bedtime story!
3. Hotwife Roleplay and Dirty Talk
Roleplay lets you try on different personas and situations for fun—a great way to explore and express different sides of yourself. This hotwife challenge can be practice for the real thing or an exercise in pure fantasy.
Read: Cuckold Dirty Talk Ideas for Hotwives
4. Chat with Other Men Online
This hotwife challenge lets you flirt and play through virtual conversation. Share the most salacious bits with your husband, or take screenshots he can torture himself with later.
This dare is as easy as signing up to hotwife dating site like CouplesDating.com. There you can easily find bulls eager to engage in naughty video chat.
Read: Hotwife Dating Sites for Couples & Bulls
5. Give Him a Handjob while Describing an Old Hookup
Treat him to the ol’ rub and tug with a twist. Tell him everything about a night with someone else that you can’t forget.
6. Yell Someone Else’s Name while Having Sex
This hotwife idea lets you spice things up with a bit of light erotic humiliation by giving the shout out to another man when you’re getting busy under the sheets.
7. Send Him Teasing Texts While You’re Out
You might just be at the laundromat waiting for a free washing machine, but text him something filthier than your clothes.
Read: Hotwife Texts to Send to your Cuckold or Hotwife
8. Carry a Condom in Your Purse and Let Him Know
One hotwife idea is to carry condoms in your purse and casually let them spill out or tell him. It plants the idea he won’t be able to erase—that you are actively looking out for opportunities to get naked with other men.
9. Go Braless or without Panties
Why not? He gets hot when you share your assets with the rest of the world, and you might attract the kind of attention you want!
10. “Accidentally” Flash Your Tits in Public
Here’s a hotwifing dare for the dressing room. When you’re modeling blouses at the boutique, have a little wardrobe malfunction when the store is full of hot men.
11. Answer the Delivery in Your Bra (or Topless)
If a pizza’s on the way, a hotwife dare is to answer the door in something skimpy as fuck. Make it a memorable evening in, for your husband and for the delivery guy too!
12. Make Him Worship Your Body
This hotwife idea reminds both of you what this is really all about. You are a queen and a goddess, and he should worship your body. Let him get up close and personal with the gorgeous beauty you’ll be giving away on the side.
Read: All About Body Worship and How to Indulge
13. Force Him to Wear a Chastity Cage
While you’re out in your sexiest little red dress attracting attention like the siren you are, you want to make sure he doesn’t jerk off thinking about it. A hotwife can control her cuckold’s chastity by caging him and calling the shots about when he can come out to play.
Read: Male Chastity Play and Cock Locking Devices
14. Wear a Hotwife Anklet
One hotwife challenge is to wear an anklet, letting like-minded people know who you are. A sultry anklet can subtly communicate that you are in a relationship but open to meeting other men. You can get charms like H&W, three hearts, wear his chastity cage key or two circles-with-arrows charms to symbolize men.
15. Go to a Nude Beach
Get naked outside near the sun and surf, and let him take in all eyes on you.
16. Point Out Men You Think Are Hot
Whenever you notice a man checking you out, tell him all about it. Describe the delicious details as well as the guy.
17. Buy New Sexy Lingerie Together
A classic hotwife idea is going shopping together so that you can pick out the slinkiest ways to show off your best assets. This gives him clothes to imagine you in. It can be totally sweet and hot, or it can be humiliating if he’s a cuckold, because you aren’t going to wear those thongs just for him.
Read: Kinky BDSM Lingerie Ideas
18. Dress Slutty When You Go Out
A hotwife loves to celebrate her beautiful body and show it off. And your husband loves it when you do.
Who says you can’t wear stilettos to the dry cleaners? Wear skintight skinny jeans if you’re doing errands, and low cut blouses or form fitting dresses to luncheons. Pencil skirt and heels are both hotwifing and office friendly!
19. Let Your Stag Choose Your Outfit
Your stag wants to show you off. Let him choose what to show you off in!
20. Flirt with Guys in Front of Him
Let him see you in full action responding to men’s attention.
Read: Cuckold Humiliation Ideas: How to Humiliate a Cuck
21. Go Clubbing Together but Make Out with Someone Else
A hotwife challenge is to go dancing or to a bar and pick up another guy to make out with while your husband melts.
22. Sexy Dance with Other Men
Make sure you dirty dance with your new potential lover where your husband can see every move you make.
23. Come Home with Hickeys but Say Nothing
Let your lovers leave a mark that will torture him as he imagines how it got there.
24. Control Your Cuckold’s Orgasms
One way to play at erotic humiliation is through orgasm denial like making him wear a chastity belt, but there is also orgasm edging, ruined orgasms, and more.
Read: Orgasm Control and 9 More Orgasm Kinks
25. Attend a BDSM Club
A hotwifing idea is to explore everything on offer at a fetish event or a BDSM club.
Read: BDSM Clubs: First Time Tips and Inspiration
26. Go to a Sex Party or Club
Not into BDSM? There are lots of sex-themed parties for polyamory, swinging, and hotwifing. Try going together to explore, or go alone and tell him the dirty deets when you get back home tomorrow!
Read: Sex Party Tips and Etiquette
27. Go on a Swingers Cruise
A hotwife and her hubby can try a swingers cruise for their next vacation!
28. Search For Bulls Together Online
Let him chew on who’s going to be driving you tonight.
Read: How to Find a Bull for Your Hotwife
29. Let Hubby Drive while You Make Out in the Back Seat
A hotwife challenge is to make her cuckold the chauffeur while you make out and get wild in the back seat.
30. Have Sex while Your Cuckold Watches
Are you ready for the full monty? Then this hotwife challenge is for you. He can watch while you get naked and nasty with your virile bull.
Read: Cuckold Tips: Watching Your Wife Have Sex
31. Let Him Listen to You Fuck over the Phone
Let him listen in through speakerphone while you fuck, suck, squirm, scream, moan and groan.
32. Send Him a Video of You Sucking another Man
Nothing like a little evidence to drive him wild and crazy.
33. Experience Double Penetration with Two Men
The hotwife threesome sandwich. Pure heaven, especially for you.
Read: A Beginner’s Guide to Double Penetration
34. Make Your Cuckold Clean Up Your Bull’s Cum
Cuckolds love to do the dirty work. It’s evidence of how hot you are with a dose of that delicious humiliation.
35. Make Your Cuck Suck Your Bull’s Cock
Take it up a notch and pile on the erotic degradation by making your cuck pleasure your bull before cleaning up by sucking and licking and lapping.
What hotwife challenges and dares will you try? Dare to share!
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