Are you looking for a blowjob to blow your mind? Let a femdom take control!
Femdom blowjobs are spicy as hell. Stop thinking about the usual blowjobs you receive on hookups, and let a dominant woman decide what kind of blowjob is going to take you to the brink and over, if you’re lucky.
Just as there are many types of femdoms looking for submissive men to dominate, there are many blowjobs they enjoy administering, some more geared to pleasure while others focus on pain or punishment.
Femdom blowjobs can be quick and painless or prolonged and torturous. The one thing that you can count on from a femdom is that your blowjob will be explosive.
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12 Femdom Blowjob Ideas
1. Blindfolds and Bondage
Want to take your femdom blowjob to the next level? First, tie up your submissive in a position that provides you easy access to their cock. Have him butt naked to increase his sense of vulnerability while you remain fully clothed. Add a blindfold, so he doesn’t know what you’ll do next.
Heightened anticipation and the inability to move will serve up a bigger and better orgasm, guaranteed.
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2. Femdom Roleplay
For BDSM amateurs and couples whose roles are not defined, femdom roleplaying is an excellent way to explore kinky blowjobs.
Dress up as a woman in a position of power—a pilot, CEO, Principal, corrections officer, doctor, sergeant, police officer—and have your submissive at your mercy. If they don’t obey your commands during the blowjob, there will be consequences.
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3. Add a Cock Ring or Vibrator
Submissives get the femdom blowjob they deserve. You may want to slide a cock ring on to your sub’s hard shaft to keep him hard longer, it may go over his balls for aesthetic reasons.
Vibrators work well for teasing and titillating your sub especially if you want him vacillating between limp and rock hard for your amusement.
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4. Add Anal to the Mix
Let your sub feel the beautiful pleasure of being penetrated while penetrating your mouth. You can simply have him wear a butt plug while you suck him off or invite a sexy friend to penetrate him in an MMF or FFM with a strap-on.
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5. Cock and Ball Torture (CBT)
What’s a femdom blowjob without a little CBT thrown in. A dominant woman will have a hard time not wanting to torture a man’s dick.
Cock and ball torture can be light and playful or it can be painful. You can slap or flick his hard cock back and forth as it stands at attention, you can squeeze his balls gently, or you can bring out a paddle. Whatever method you employ, be very careful with the testicles. Research BDSM safety if you are new to CBT.
Read: Cock and Ball Torture: 7 CBT Kinks and Methods
6. Small Penis Humiliation (SPH)
Is your submissive’s dick on the small side? During a femdom blowjob, you may want to remind him of this, that he’s lucky that anyone would want to suck such an excuse for a dick.
Small penis humiliation is a great way to remind your sub who’s boss. You can also describe your last lover’s enormous cock and how it satisfied you way beyond what he does. SPH can also be a role play with a sub who actually has a normal to large-sized dick.
7. Demand Silence
Femdoms want to call the shots, figuratively and literally, and they don’t always want a sub’s input or to hear anything at all. You may want silence during your femdom blowjob scene and request that your sub zip it. Of course, you can employ BDSM hand signals for communication and safety precautions.
If you have a hard time keeping your sub quiet, bring out your ball gag for guaranteed silence.
8. Edging and Orgasm Control
Femdom blowjobs often include edging, as a way to control a sub’s orgasm—when he will orgasm and how explosive it will be. As a dominant woman, you can tease and titillate til your heart’s content. There’s nothing more thrilling than deciding when your sub can come, if at all.
Many femdoms will restrain their sub’s hands while edging to prevent them from interfering in their wily ways. It’s your hands and mouth that will take him to the brink, again and again.
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9. Snowballing
If you do allow your sub to orgasm in your mouth, you can take his cum and snowball it into his. For some couples, snowballing is seen as a loving intimate exchange, but for a femdom, it can be a power trip, especially if the sub would rather do anything else but taste or swallow his own cum.
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10. Cum Cleanup
Femdom blowjobs that focus on humiliation and degradation may include the sub being ordered to clean up their disgusting mess of cum which may be on the floor, themselves, or on their dominant.
You can ask your sub to lick it off your body or the floor, or order them to scrape it off their body with a baby spoon and eat it like a bad little boy.
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11. Post-Orgasm Torture
Once you’ve allowed your sub the pleasure of release, you can continue touching their cock. This works best if they are tied up, unable to swat your hands or tongue off.
Their cock, especially the tip, will be sensitive as hell, and they won’t want you anywhere near it… which means that is exactly where you will continue to suck or rub while they beg you to stop.
Read: Post-Orgasm Torture Tips and Ideas
12. Ruined Orgasm
The ultimate femdom blowjob will include plenty of buildup through stimulation, but absolutely no release through orgasm and ejaculation.
A ruined orgasm will be deeply satisfying, as it gives you absolute sexual power in the scene. You can bring your sub’s cock to the brink, then leave them hanging. To ensure the orgasm is ruined, you probably want your sub’s hands tied, so he isn’t able to finish himself off. Once he’s limp, you can release him.
Read: How to Ruin an Orgasm in the Name of Kink
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