Kinky lovers who enjoy sadomasochism can enjoy a wide range of sex toys for pain play. You probably have classic pain play toys and a few favorites, but may want to explore more options.
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20 Pain Play Toys and Devices
1. Wartenburg Pinwheel
This pain play toy was originally used as a medical device in neurology to test nerve sensitivity. It has become a toy of choice for people with a tickling fetish, and is a popular choice for sensation play as well.
It’s basically a spiky wheel that you can roll over any body part. Changing the pressure of the motion moves it from tickling to more painful.
Read: Advanced Sensation Play
2. Floggers
Floggers are impact play toys designed with a multiple tails, usually made from soft leather. Floggers have a beautiful aesthetic for those with kinky tastes.
The numerous strips soften the blow by spreading it more evenly, and this makes a flogger the most versatile of spanking and impact play toys. It’s easy for beginners to control the intensity of the impact.
Read: Flogging for Beginners
3. Whips and Crops
When it comes to impact pain play toys, whips and riding crops pack a deliciously vicious bite. Riding crops are of course doubly amazing for folks who enjoy pony play and horse tack, along with their perfect sting.
Read: BDSM Whipping 101: 9 Whips for a Naughty Sub
4. E-Stim Toys
Lots of kink lovers are experimenting with electronic stimulation devices, which are pain play toys that use electric currents to provide zapping sensations. E-stim toys are specifically designed for safe erotic use, so don’t jerry rig your own from health devices or other uses.
These sex toys range from mild sensations to intense ones. They are created for use on nipples, genitalia, and more. E-stim toys are also popular for domination and submission, as they can be used for punishment and training purposes, and some of them can be controlled remotely by someone who is not there.
Read: 12 Electrosex Toys for Kinky E-Stim Sex
5. Clit Clamps and Suckers
Clit clamps are accessories that can be decorative or stimulating against the clitoris. They look something like a heavy-duty bobby pin with some baubles or small weights. Clitoral suckers are toys that stimulate the clit with a sucking motion. Some of them are quite intense and could be used as pain play toys.
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6. Hitachi Wand and Heavy Duty Vibrators
Bondage with a heavy duty vibrator against her pussy and clit for forced orgasm play can be exquisitely painful.
Read: How to Use a Vibrator during Sex
7. Pussy Clamp
A pussy clamp or pussy spreader fits over the vulva with the purpose of stretching the labia and giving your partner access to the most sensitive parts of the body. This can facilitate impact play, sensation play, and vibration and make it more painful.
8. Nipple Clamps
There are mild nipple clamps, intense nipple clamps, nipple clamps that vibrate, and nipple clamps that stretch the nipple or breast with weights. All of these pain play toys can be used for pinching, clamping, nipple torture, and more.
Read: His and Hers Guide to Nipple and Breast Torture
9. Nipple Suckers
Nipple suction toys increase nipple sensitivity, make nipples bigger and puffier, and stimulate the nipple area. You can fill them with lube for different sensations.
Read: Kinky Nipple Play Ideas
10. Young Forceps
Young forceps are stainless steel forceps with spongy sides designed to grasp the tongue. They can use used to clamp the tongue, nipples, labia, and more.
Read: Tongue Fetish: 8 Kinky Tongue Play Ideas
11. CBT Ball Crushers and Pillorys
Pain play toys for cock and ball torture (CBT) include ball crushers, penis clamps, cock weights, and the pillory, a kind of bondage cage designed to restrain a sub and cage the cock and balls to be make torture easier to administer.
Read: CBT Toys and Ball Busting Gear Ideas
12. Paddles
A good thwacking is classic BDSM, and there are lots of gorgeous leather strip or bar paddles, ping-pong style broad ones, and more. For those who like amped up pain play toys, some come with spikes or texture to increase the sting.
Read: Spanking Paddles: How to Make and Use BDSM Paddles
13. XL Dildos
Extreme penetration can be part of sadomasochism. There are extra-large dildos that can be used as pain play toys. They can be designed in cock shapes or to simulate a fist, or in various modernist shapes and colors that don’t mimic body parts.
Read: Sadomasochism: Sadism and Masochism in BDSM
14. Anal Penetration and Stretching Toys
Massive butt plugs and flared dildos designed for anal penetration can also be part of your pain play toy box. Anal training toys and anal stretchers can be used to stretch the anus open. Anal cones look something like a pylon and are designed for anal stretching.
Read: 8 Reasons to Use a Butt Plug during Kinky Sex
15. Wax Play Candles
Hot wax is an age-old tool of sensation play. You can get special candles that are specifically designed as toys for pain play. They are created so that they won’t cause burns to the skin.
Read: Literally Hot Sex: The Essentials of Wax Play
16. Mouth Spreader Gag
A mouth spreader gag is a bondage device designed to stretch open the mouth. It positions the submissive’s mouth as a gaping hole at the ready.
Read: Why BDSM Submission is So Satisfying
17. Anal Hooks
Anal hooks are S-shaped or hook-shaped pain play toys made of stainless steel. They are designed to be inserted into the anus and connected to bondage restraints to keep you in a specific position.
Read: 23 Submissive Poses and BDSM Slave Positions
18. Needle Play Kit
An expression of BDSM that takes pain play to the next level is needle play. Needle pain play toys are specifically designed for precision piercing and come sterilized. People who enjoy needle play use it as a form of bondage, as well as for S and M.
19. Knives
For extreme BDSM, hardcore enthusiasts may enjoy knife play to inflict pain on a partner. This can be part of a total power exchange relationship, wherein the physical risk heightens the kink and also builds trust between partners.
Read: Knife Kink: Knife Play Basics for BDSM Lovers
20. Ice Cubes
Some pain play toys are economical, and handy. Ice cubes can shock as a stimulation variant or as part of sensation play. They can soothe swollen nipples or flesh that is inflamed from impact play.
What pain play toys or devices do you use or fantasize about using?
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